I have made
different types of friends throughout this time at different contexts, at
different stages in my life and wonder sometimes what exactly the definition of
friendship is by looking at the way I get treated from different friends. I
have met some who are very dear to me, caring and worry about me the same way
I feel for them. Also I have met some who are stage-passers in that period of
life, just being friends only within that context. Some of the friends can be
trusted very well and the others are not worth enough even for
the word of trust. I wonder is it a problem of me only? Or is that how
humans behave with others as when they see they cannot manipulate, they just
don´t care. Is being a friend mean the same as manipulation another person
according to your thought process?
According to psychological facts, humans tend to surround with another humans and that nature of ours had affected different people in different ways. For some making friends and having friends is a blessing and for some it´s a curse. Personally I like to talk with people and smile with them just in everyday life, but that does not mean all of them can become my friends! I do not know whether it is the case with everyone, but I have seen people who do not want to share even a smile with another human. I always wonder what is the criteria of making good friends who can cheer you up, whom can be trusted, which could be the filtering criteria. People lie all the time, but I don´t get why friends lie or cheat knowing that the other person would definitely figure it out sooner or later…..
Just sharing
personal thoughts and experiences…. And always open for sharing ideas and
thoughts.
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