Why not to be slaves of money or organizations?

Money… more and more of it!!!!This has become the most required element to live the life we WANTED :) in today´s money-centric society. Someone might disagree with my proposition. Does not matter, we all have individual perspectives and interpretations on money when it comes to jobs, family and life. My view is that we should earn enough money to spend on the things we wish to have to lead the life we imagine, yet being realistic at the same time. If people can afford to earn enough money for their own expenditure, there would be lesser thieves and many other social crimes.

This monetary based society had led to a very money oriented market where no deal would take place without money on whatsoever. Further, this creates ample opportunities for businesses to make money by creating necessities in our lives generating more requirements to spend the money we earn. What we should realize is the fact of money being volatile rather than being slaves of it. One would spend the whole life trying to make money, ignoring all opportunities to be with your loved ones and will not realize this fact till the end where there is no return for the times gone.

Moral is…. Earn money while spending it when required with your loved ones, for your loved ones and enjoy the time you have to the max :)

Why not to hate our parents when we become adults?

While being thankful to our parents for letting us live in this world as who we are, we should be respectful and grateful for the effort they took to make our lives better in every possible aspect. But I might be wrong and this might not be the case with some of us! (Pardon me! if that is the case, I was referring to most general cases that I had seen in my life).

From small kids, we grow into adults learning variety of lessons in life each and every day of our lives and our parents had played a major role in this “growing up” context. They have nurtured us to come far in our lives, sometimes sacrificing their time, wealth and opportunities. We might have had many days and times that our parents were not there for us when we wanted them the most. We might had faced and felt that we were alone in this world even though our parents were present.

But it is strange and crazy to see how the cycle of life goes……When we become adults and having kids, we would also pass days, times and moments when our kids want us the most, knowing that we also had a past such that we felt we were left alone. May be this life is too chaotic and confusing that every human forgets his previous stages of life and how he felt when he is caught up in the trap of rat race, called “living”!

Magical me and dear me! Why not to hate me?

You are the most valuable, precious entity that you ought to love and care for because there is only you on this whole planet who like yourself. You are so unique in every aspects and sense that it is completely in vain that one even attempts of becoming someone else or comparing yourself to somebody. Even that thought would be seen as ridiculous. Love yourself! Embrace you and care for you! Protect yourself and respect your emotions and thoughts. All this does not encourage you to become such a selfish person or self-centered human. Instead, my intention is to tell you all that we must learn to love and appreciate ourselves first, in order to be able to understand and love a fellow human.

If you love yourself and value you enough, you will appreciate your ambitions and realize your capabilities. You would know how difficult to live alone without having any expectation or fulfillment. Then you would apply the same theory about fellow humans and one would try harder to understand another human. We would tend to help others more generously and care for them more since we know very well what would be our feelings when we have to be in their shoes. Love yourself first! Then you would love the whole world plenty that you would hesitate do any bad cause for a fellow human because you know how much you value your life and that the same applies with others too. Just know that you are magical and unique in this world!!!!!! :)